Code Adam

I've heard it, I just haven't needed it - until yesterday. Yes, yesterday was a first for me, WalMart, and Code Adam.

I was shopping with Will, Erin, and James right next to the fish. You know, kids love fish. So, I told Erin and James to go look at the fish while I finish looking at socks. (They are right next to each other.) I finished and went to the fish to gather my kids and they were gone! I quickly found Erin - but James was NO WHERE! I looked and looked. I asked some employees to page him. I could not see him ANYWHERE! That stinker! Everything is going through my mind when I realize that he is really not near. They send me to the customer service desk and proceed to ask a description on him so they can look and put out a CODE ADAM. The manager came(very nice, by the way) and said that the procedure is that all employees will look for 10 minutes and then they will call the authorities to help with the search. My heart sank. Yes, tears came to my eyes and what a mix of emotions flowed - if you know what I mean.

The manager asked me if it was possible that he went to the car. I didn't know but went and checked with a manager following me. To my great relief, he was there. He was hiding in the back so no one will see him. He was so scared too. UGH! I took him back to the store, they called off the CODE ADAM and gathered my other kids to finish shopping. Erin, James and I were all teary eyed and so relieved we found each other. I think I aged 10 years right there and then.

I learned some things.
1- DO NOT, under any circumstances, let James out of my sight until he is on the plane for his mission. (OK, that is a little drastic - but, come on!)
2- Even though I am scared, mad, embarrassed and every other emotion, let the store help you. It was so nice that I knew they were helping and doing everything they could.
3-When they were asking his description, it was harder than I thought. Some days I don't really know what shoes he was wearing or what coat he put on. I need to make better observations before we go into places that large. (or else dress him the same EVERY day! ha. Ha.)
4- Teach the kids that the employees with a name tag are the "good strangers". If he would have gone to one of the employees and said he was missing his mom- it would have helped out the whole situation. He knows it now.

On the way home Erin asked me if I knew what she was doing while she was waiting with William while I was looking for James. She said that she was saying a lot of prayers to help find him. I'm so thankful for faithful children.

Although I have more grey hair on top, prayers are answered and we are all OK. (OK I say because this trip was right after a Dr. visit with Erin and James both being diagnosed with strep throat. I know, I know, it is one thing or another at this house. I can't wait until warmer weather!)

Don't be afraid of Code Adam and I'll pay more attention next time I hear one and help them out.

Comments

So scary!! When Natalie was 4, we were outside playing with some friends. I ran in the house to put laundry in the dryer, and when I came out she was gone. I was so scared. I knew she couldn't be far, beacuse there were other moms and kids outside, and no strangers had come into our complex area. We looked for about 5-10 minutes, and Nick came running and said she was upstairs in her bedroom playing. She had come in behind me when I was doing laundry.
Hey! I never knew what Code Adam meant! The things we learn. You see it everywhere.

I'm so relieved that you found him. That is seriously every mom's nightmare.

I'm glad everything turned out well. (ok, except for the strep throat! You've had a long winter!)
diana said…
Yes, that is a heart-dropping to your toes moment when you look & can't find them. Isabelle walked home from the church while I was doing activity days. I didn't know & was pretty panicked by the time I had circled the building. All of a sudden I saw her walking up the street with Karl-I was soooo relieved!
So glad you have him in your arms!They are super fast. Sorry about the strep, we all have the 2 week cough. Not fun...
Patty said…
Glad all is o.k. Kids are always teaching us things. When they say education is a lifetime committment, our children see that it lasts a lifetime. Hope the kids are better soon.
Sally said…
Whoa!!! And to think that you are turning 40 next week...you may just have a heart attack next time! Well if your other kids don't age you enough, James will take care of it for you. (I'm glad he was in the car...what did he say when you found him?)
Ryan and Summer said…
Oh Trish, when you told me about this, I wish I didn't know what that was, but I did. I hope it's the last time. McKay got mad when he was 5 or 6 and stomped off, and we had the same thing happen...darn it anyway... hang in there!!
Tricia said…
Sal-he had that scared, are you mad? I'm glad you are here - look on his face. We all had a good cry (Erin James and I) when we found him. I'm so glad it had a good ending.
Mels said…
I am so glad it all worked out. I know how the heart goes into a sick panic feeling when they disappear. Luke loves to hide the clothes racks so I don't even let them out of the cart (poor kids) but It is too scary when they wander.

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